Tag Archives: Dialogue

What is empathy? // Roman Krznaric

“….empathy is the art of stepping imaginatively into the shoes of another person, understanding their feelings and perspectives, and using that understanding to guide your actions. So empathy is distinct from expressions of sympathy — such as pity or feeling sorry for somebody — as these do not involve trying to understand the other person’s… Read More »

“An opinion as to what truth is, is not truth….” // J Krishnamurti

“Can you understand anything if you have already made up your mind about it, or if you repeat the conclusions of another? To find the truth of this matter, must we not come to it afresh, with a mind that is not clouded by prejudice? Which is more important, to be free from conclusions, prejudices,… Read More »

“The heart of dialogue is a simple but profound capacity to listen.” // William Isaacs

“Everywhere we look, myopic vision, petty misunderstandings, and small deceits escalate into gross, wasteful calamities that seem like they could be avoided if only people talk to each other  with a different kind of conversational presence…. The heart of dialogue is a simple but profound capacity to listen. Listening requires we not only hear the… Read More »

The first tenet of Non-Violent Communication // Marshall B. Rosenberg

“I can handle your telling me what I did or didn’t do. And I can handle your interpretations, but please don’t mix the two.   If you want to confuse any  issue, I can tell you how to do it: Mix together what I do with how you react to it.   Tell me that… Read More »

“For the most part, we see our conversations as….arenas to win points.” // William Isaacs

“Another word for ‘not thinking’ is “memory.” Human beings live out of their memories, insulated from direct experience. Memory is like a tape recording; it plays back a once-experienced reality that may or may not apply well to the current situation. Like a tape, memory is limited. The parameters of its responses are already set.… Read More »